HOW TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE COMPLETELY IN THREE MONTHS

         

A life change

You might once or twice in your life find yourself unhappy, and not satisfied with the life you are living. 

You might be simply letting yourself be ruled byt a life you are really disppointed at. 

Or you might realize that there is a whole world in front of you and you are being a merely spectator of it all. It is time you stop being a spectator and starte being the main actor in this fantastic experience that is life.  

I have today a few tips on how to change your life in three months. 

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Take some of your time to read, and then start putting into action these simples steps below: 

STEP 1. Diagnostic

    First of all, map out your life. Find what you like and what you do not.  Make up a list of things you are happy and things you are not happy with.

STEP 2. Treatment

 Separate the things you are not happy with: people, habits, personal belongings.

           a.      People: separate them into categories: relatives, friends, and acquaintances.

                                      i.     Relatives: do not try changing them by speaking about their mistakes; instead, you have to change the way they see you. For this purpose, you have to start showing good actions and qualities. Remember, they are part of your family, and good or not, they will follow your steps during your whole life; they will the ones who will always be by your side, for good or for bad. Therefore, it is better that you get along well.

                                             ii.      Friends: The same as above. Close friends sometimes are even closer than some relatives are. Therefore, invest your time and life in good friends; make new ones, but never put aside good old friends.  However, if your friend just remember you when s/he needs, then s/he is not your friend.

                                         iii.      Acquaintances: whereas Friends mean quality, acquaintances mean quantity.  Nowadays, with the evolution of social networks, it is quite easy to add thousands of people to you net. Beware, for you might end spending too much time of your precious life trying to interact with thousands of acquaintances.  If you are not a pop star, and do not depend on thousands of fans, better to focus on your daily life and faithful friends.  Unless you have a secretary or someone you hired to administer your thousands of acquaintances on social networks, be careful.

b.  Habits: map out the habits that you consider harmful in your life (sleeping late every day, drinking, eating junk food, not tidying up your stuff, talking on people’s back, gossiping, telling white lies, not exercising your body etc). For each one of them plan a changing strategy: draw a daily, a weekly and a monthly scheme with schedule for all the activities you wish to implement in your life. After three months of doing the right things, being disciplined and resilient, you will have succeed. The successful hint is not establishing too much challenging goals. If you are too tough on yourself, chances are you will not succeed.  You might want to divide the goals into groups and implement them in stages.  

c.    Personal belongings: accumulating memories is part of our life.  But at times it is necessary to analyse whether or not we are keeping unnecessary things. Somethings, we must let some old things go to welcome new ones. Moreover, some of the things might not have a use in our life anymore, but might be useful to other people. By doing this “letting go”, you will be prepared for new comings.

STEP 3. Establishing goals

  Now, establish the major goals you want to achieve. Separate them into areas: personal, professional, physical, spiritual, social, and financial. For each goal, set a major temporal delimitation. Then, establish intermediary objectives and temporal delimitations. The reason is that it is easier to achieve smaller objectives than a whole goal.

Changing your habits is a good way to help you achieve your goals in life.  Following these 3 major steps will help you change your life. If you want something different to happen in your life, you must do something different.

Strive on for your life, it is worth it!!

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